Review: ‘The Other End of the Leash’
I picked up Patricia B. McConnell Ph.D’s book The Other End of the Leash: Why We Do What We Do Around Dogs after my mentor recommended it to me with the review of “you’ll look at dogs completely different after reading this.” She was right. This book is phenomenal.
Whereas a lot of dog books talk about how to train our canine companions and give training advice, The Other End of the Leash compares and contrasts how humans and dogs interact with their own species and with each other. As McConnell points out, as humans part of the primate family, we’re so ingrained with certain behaviors that we easily forget that what we find to be socially acceptable isn’t the same in the dog world. McConnell clearly illustrates all the similarities and differences and where we,, as humans go wrong when interacting with our dogs. And she does all this in a reader-friendly way, mixing in anecdotes with scientific research. It’s a fast read and an informative read.
This isn’t a “how to train your dog” book but a “how to understand your dog better” book. She explains how dogs are expert body language readers, why rough primate play can cause trouble when we do it with dogs, how to get your dog to come to you when called, translating “primate speak” to “dog speak” and much more. How many times have we bent down and said, “Come Fluffy. Come Fluffy. Come Fluffy.” only to have Fluffy stare at you awkwardly and unmoving, or repeat “sit” a hundred times, each verbal command getting louder than the last with no results? McConnell explains why and how we can communicate better with our pups.
My favorite section of the book is her chapter on dominance and how social status relates to the behavior of both humans and dogs. This topic of dominance and being “alpha” definitely wins the Inigo Montoya’s “You keep using that word. I don’t think it means what you think it means” Award, and trainers and owners a like will benefit from reading the chapter. McConnell explains why dogs prefer a benevolent leader over a status seeking “alpha-wananbe” and why “getting dominant” over your pup can make things worse.
If you really want to understand your dog better — and when we expect our pups to understand English, we should take the time to understand them — pick up The Other End of the Leash. You, and your dog, will be glad you did.






